Willing to work | self growth habits & life hacks
"Willing to work to me means.... Working on myself to achieve whatever goals I have set to accomplish."
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Say it with me; "In 2023 I will be...."
Making more money $$$$
Curating more love in my life (Platonically and Romantically)
Practicing Better self care
Happy and developing better daily habits
Healthy and Mentally Secure
Here are a few personal tips to better help you "fall in love", with the work you have planned this year to create a better you!
Life hack #1 - Do the Work
I didn’t say finish but start just like anything new in life we must try.
Through repetition and practice things will get better and improve on the inside and out; trust me! Your confidence with grow, your skin will glow, and the world will be bigger than ever before.
That Youtube video or creative project isn't going to create and edit itself (Side note: I say this because sadly, I know).
Write out a few ideas and try your hand, I'm sure you're better than you expected, and the world wants to see.
Have faith - You can do it :)
Life hack #2 - Discover your Purpose (the real reason)
This requires honesty and self reflection
All things start from within so ask yourself
Why am I doing this?
What am I learning from this experience?
What do I hope to gain and accomplish?
Do everything with reason and always remember your purpose - this is why you started.
This allows you to see the true motive for why you are doing something
Really weeding out the truth and integrity from what’s fake and how you really feel vs other influences on you for example: Wanting a new car or bag; because it’s popular or following a trend without intention
Life Hack #3 - Learn patience if you want to see progress
Slow and steady wins the race
Making sure you're taking the proper steps to gain and really develop better habits skills and routines into your life or craft.
Remember; With patience there's also grace.
Give yourself a pat on the back and whatever you do... DON'T GIVE UP.
All things happen with time! Which can be hard to believe; but it's true. Everything has its season.
You have to learn how to crawl before you walk and walk before you run - there are complete steps in life for everything and everybody; that on its own makes each one of us unique. Give yourself some grace and take a deep breath - you're not behind woosah; and relax.
You’ll be better than you were tomorrow - I promise <3
Life Hack #4 - Have fun and Enjoy the ride
Have you ever noticed whenever someone accomplishes their goals the first thing they reflect on is their past? Just like being at the top of a mountain or the pinnacle of your journey all their is left to do is look down. So remember on your way up to look around and admire the moment. You're own your way up so things are bound to never look the same again.
Life Hack #5 - Be true to you and who you are
We all go through changes, life decisions, and experiences that are not what we wish to see or even imagine happening to us in our lives. What happened today can't affect tomorrow - only if you let it. The past is the past and that's where it belongs.
Alway be true to yourself no matter what you’ve been through or where you're going. We all make decisions and choices in our lives that we honestly thought were the best for us at that time.
If it didn’t work out, its okay. If it didn’t go as planned, I understand. We all make choices and nothing is really guaranteed. You did what you thought was best and love yourself for that. Appreciate what you have done even if it didn’t go as planned because you still learned a lesson in the end.
Remember storms truly don’t last forever.
I love you guys and I wish you the best transformation imaginable this new year!
Sincerely,
Tia Ray
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